Pressure and Decisions

Hello Pandas~! SO I recently have been consoling a friend about her relationship problems. First of all, my opinions here are very because of the fact that I haven't really been in a relationship before but this is what I see from other people. So don't hate me alright? Mkay~! So she recently made a decision that affected the entire relationship completely. She made th e decision and was very sure that she wouldn't regret it but a couple of weeks later she started to feel the pressure and uneasiness of it. She is unsure if she made the right decision, which is always a problem for people. My other close friend and I were trying to help her steer in the right direction but it all means nothing. We can't help her with decisions because SHE is the one that has to make it.

Decisions are made every day, every second. I am making decisions right now by choosing what words to add in this blog. You can't really take back a decision made unless your the one typing. For some people, its not too hard to follow your heart but for people like me, I am very indecisive. I tend to follow what people tell me what to do. I hardly am able to make some decisions by myself. Maybe I'm not. I just can't seem to figure myself out. Like a certain YouTuber said,"You are lost as f___!" Yea. I am. Maybe its because I am afraid to stand out in a negative way. I want to be original but I'm scared to be original in a negative way. I'm not too sure how to explain it... TT.TT I mean I am fine with getting attention for like straight A's or something but I feel that I don't have the skills to stand out...OK GOING WAYYY OFF TOPIC!!

So overall, we all have to learn to make decisions. We all have to learn that we will make mistakes and to not be afraid of this. With each mistake, we have to learn from it and you will find people to help you. Alrighty? <3 Bai~!

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^.^ Emily